Similar to other forms of coaching, sex and intimacy coaching focuses on getting you from where you are currently to where you want to be in the future. The focuses involved in this type of coaching can be a huge variety as human sexuality is so beautifully vast and unique. Some areas of coaching can be focused in sex, intimacy, self-love, arousal, pleasure, introducing and learning about sex toys, learning how to receive, practicing communication skills, and more! It is very common to discover that the root of sexuality challenges have nothing to do with sex, itself.

I often include a variety of sex education throughout my coaching sessions with clients and workshops. It is very common that many adults do not understand how their bodies/genitals work and so I provide factual information, so that they can become the experts of their own bodies!

Actually, no! Sex Therapists require additional credentials and is a federally regulated profession. To become a Sex Coach, I was required to go through so many hours of sexology education and supervised coaching. Since my certification, I have added many other trainings and workshops to my portfolio, so that I continue to show up as the best version of myself for those that I serve. Go to the "Meet Aubrey" page to learn more specifically about my background and credentials.

There are some modalities that are used in both coaching and therapy, but the main difference is that coaching is focused on the present and future; whereas, therapy can sometimes involve deep discussion regarding past or childhood trauma. During our coaching sessions, we will dive into some past experiences, but will always bring it back to the present!

It's super easy! Once you book a Pleasure Awakening Session, we hop on Zoom and discuss exactly what you want to work on and why it's important to you. If we both decide that we want to more forward - and if I decide that I'm qualified to uniquely support you - then we'll choose the right package for you and get started!

If we are not a fit for each other, I have access to a large sex coaching community and can provide introductions or referrals.

No, it doesn't. There are some sex coaching modalities that do include touching, and that is perfectly okay! However, I do not engage in touch with my 1:1 clients at this time - this is mostly due to the style of our session being through Zoom.

The only touching that I may encourage is you touching yourself in loving ways!

While I accept many forms of sexual expression, there are some things that I don't coach at this time. These include blood play, catheter play, piercing play, and some other forms of sensation play. Again, I completely support you expressing yourself in these ways and encourage you to find the edges of your sexual desire! I am also more than happy to refer you to a sex coach more suited for you!

It depends. Though, for everyone I've worked with so far, it has taken more than one session. This is why I require new clients to book one of my coaching packages or enroll in my coaching program, Awaken Your Desire. For some of my clients, they only need 3-4 sessions and with others, we've been together for much longer. It all depends on what you are working on, and most importantly, how you prioritize your own efforts and growth. Transformation doesn't happen over night!

Often times when you level up in certain ways in life, other opportunities present themselves that you've not experienced or prepared for. My private coaching clients can stay with me as long as they feel they need support. When I've hired coaches, I've worked with some for a few months and others for years.